If You Love Someone, You Just Want To See Them Happy

· July 1, 2016

Who can say that they love someone and wish them ill? Nobody. Is there a way to love another person and not wish with all your heart to always see them happy and cheerful? I would say no.

Sometimes life can be very hard. There are countless facts that can lead to life falling apart. However, if you love someone, you will only want to see them happy, whatever the cost may be.

The happiness of the person we love

We don’t need to be told to want happiness for the person we love. In fact, it is something that does not need to be thought about; it is simply felt. In your heart, there is no greater desire than to see the person you love filled with joy.

Couple Lying on Ground Holding Hands

A person who loves with intensity and who feels happy does not wish ill on anybody, especially those people that make their life something special, full of hope and affection.

A happy person is a lively, friendly, affectionate person who looks out for the well being of all those who make their existence special and fulfilling.

If you do not want to see the person you love be happy…

If you do not want to see the person you love be happy, maybe you need to take another look at your feelings, because it is obvious that the love is not fulfilling and maybe you do not love them the way you think you do.

Reflect on your feelings, emotions, and abilities. You must always evaluate yourself and be aware of who you are and what it is that you are looking for in life.

Above all else, aim to get to the deepest depths of your heart to know with precision the desires that are hidden there and the real needs that it feels. Otherwise, you will not be able to make anybody happy, and as such, you also will not be happy yourself.

A happy and loved person

Keep in mind that the person you love will not be perfect. In fact, there will be a multitude of imperfections that you are going to find in that person. As many as you have yourself.

However, if you sincerely love them, you will want to see them happy. So much so that the imperfections will be something quite secondary; they will not matter to you at all, and they may even end up turning into perfection.

We don’t need to have the perfect person at their side who knows how to compensate, understand, or love at all times. They just need to be loved, feel unique in the world, and be happy with the things that they have achieved in life, which are numerous.

“One is in love when he realizes that the other person is unique.”

-Jorge Luis Borges-

If the person who is at your side is unique for you, you just need to have one priority in life, and that is seeing them happy, fulfilled, and contented. Giving them all the love that they need so that they never fall off their cloud.

Finding happiness in others

Couple Hugging

Many people say that you can know a person through their friendships, family members, and acquaintances. There is some truth to this, for our tendency is always to look for understanding and people who resemble and complement us.

In this sense, a person who surrounds themselves with happy people will discover a strong source of support that will allow them to live their life with greater fulfillment.

“We come to love not by finding a perfect person, but by learning to see an imperfect person perfectly.”

-Sam Keen-

It is not just a matter of loving your romantic partner. Love your partner, your friends and your family members with all of your heart and soul, just like you can any person who means something in your life and makes you a better person.

The fact that you are capable of making others happy can complete you. You’ll feel fulfilled and content, and all of this is due to the simple fact of loving others.