What is intermittent explosive disorder?
We’re referring to a disorder in which the control over your impulses and your emotional regulation are affected . Also, we could say that it is characterized by two fundamental factors.
People with this disorder experience recurrent episodes full of explosions of rage . They showcase a lack of control and aggressiveness, with a threatening attitude which is manifested through yelling. Oftentimes, it includes physical harm towards the surrounding objects, including even animals or people. It is an uncontrolled emotional state which is repeated over time. These episodes of rage are not proportionate to the cause or motive that triggers them. They tend to be provoked by a situation which the individual interprets as negative, but which other people would handle with ease. For example, a small discussion, a project with an unfavorable outcome, criticism from a coworker…In some causes, the cause could even be imaginary, such as for example feeling attacked in a discussion, when in reality there is no such attack. Or, also, due to imaginary jealousy. All of these are “reasons” which trigger an intense bout of aggressiveness.
Intermittent explosive disorder is an obstacle
Not handling your rage well can have devastating consequences in the life of those who suffer from this disorder. Furthermore, it can also affect the people around them. This is due to the fact that controlling one’s aggressive impulses is a fundamental key to living within a society.
Most people who have this disorder have issues in their personal relationships, be it with family members, romantic partners or friendships . Living close to a person with this disorder means living in a state of constant tension. It’s impossible to predict when they will explode. This causes the people around them, who love and care for them, to end up putting some distance between them. They do this out of fear towards the explosions and outbursts, and the consequences they bring.
This disorder also affects the individuals’ work life. The individual doesn’t know how to control their outbursts, or how to prevent them. Thus, frustrating situations in the workplace sooner or later end up triggering a burst of rage. These situations could include discussions with coworkers or criticism from their superiors. Hence, these outbursts generate a bad work environment and a possible firing if the situation repeats itself enough times.
Why do some people have outbursts of aggressiveness?
Some studies indicate that the explosions of aggressiveness are the consequence of a deficit of serotonin in the brain, such as in lesions in the prefrontal cortex. The prefrontal cortex is precisely the part of the brain which is associated with impulse control. It is in charge of higher thinking.
Although this brings to mind biological causes, another aspect to highlight is that most of the people who suffer from this disorder have lived in environments when one or various people manifested outbursts of rage. This makes you think that, in addition to there being a biological predisposition, the education we receive throughout our childhood about how to regulate our emotions is also key.
If a child grows up perceiving unmeasured rage and violence as valid ways to obtain things, it is likely that these behaviors will persist. Also, they will be reinforced. It is necessary for minors to witness good examples of conflict resolution. Also, how to handle frustrations in a healthy manner, with patience and healthy dialogue.
Furthermore, it is important to help children understand their frustration and learn how to handle it. Especially if they have a tendency to make their complaints known through tantrums . Seek professional help if necessary. In doing so, we would be saving them from lots of problems in the future.
Intermittent explosive disorder is treatable
It’s never too late to learn more about your emotions and how to manage and control them. Through cognitive-behavioral therapy, you can get these people to identify the first signs of a bout of rage. Thus, they can stop it before it grows and causes serious damages. In order to stop them, you give them a set of alternatives, such as exiting the situation that is producing their frustration. This exit can be mental (diverting their attention) or physical.
Other aspects that help are practicing relaxation techniques. These reduce one’s general state of anxiety and overall activation tone. They do so by channeling that energy through the practice of some sport. In some cases, medication that regulates serotonin can also be of help.
The important thing is that we need to be aware that we have a problem and seek help for it. That way, we can learn to manage our rage and improve our lives, as well as the lives of the people around us.
“Upon crossing the door to my freedom, I knew that if I didn’t leave all of my rage, hatred and resentment behind, I would continue being a prisoner.”
Do you know someone who suffers from this disorder or do you think that you suffer from it yourself? How does it affect your everyday life?
