Fear Teaches Us About Ourselves
Fear is a protective emotion that alerts us to danger. It is an emotion that teaches us something deep about ourselves, and if we know how to identify it, we can conquer it and learn from it.
If you think about all the fears that you’ve harbored and had to face, you must have come to the conclusion that they weren’t that bad. Much of their strength was nothing more than a ghostly apparition, like the house that the little pig made out of straw.
What is fear?
Fear is a reaction of the body and mind towards a situation, animal, or person that we interpret as dangerous or unpleasant. It’s mainly an emotion of survival, as it protects us from risk and danger, but it’s often the case that the danger does not exist, even if you feel afraid all the same.
Fear can become a reaction that limits you in your daily life. Furthermore, it tends to grow when it’s not exposed to reality.
“Only one thing makes dreams impossible: the fear of failure.”
Who are we?
Since we were born, we’ve been living, observing, and experiencing emotions – both pleasant and unpleasant – fear being among them. As a function of experience, fear can develop as a protective mechanism to prevent a previous unpleasant situation from occurring again.
As one of our primary emotions, fear carries with it valuable information about ourselves and all the negative situations that we’ve experienced, that we try to prevent from happening again.
All of our emotions are kept in the subconscious mind, and that’s why we’re not conscious of the information that they contain regarding past experiences.
Facing fear instead of avoiding it
We tend to avoid the situations that we fear so we don’t have another negative experience. But that’s not a good idea, because we won’t learn anything as long as we’re avoiding them. On the contrary, the fear gets much stronger and more resistant to removal.
Avoiding fear will only feed it. In our minds, we become smaller and smaller next to it, because it seems to acquire more and more weapons and points of attack. This is not only observed in our degree of fear, but also in how much it conditions our lives.
“Fear is natural in cautious people, and knowing how to conquer it means being brave.”
To beat your fears, there’s no other way than to face them, overcome them, and gain the satisfaction of having done so. In order to confront it, you have to discover something more about yourself. That is, get to know yourself through your fear, its origins, its meaning, and your interpretation of the danger.