I'm Not the Girl You Gave Teddy Bear Pajamas To Anymore

I'm Not the Girl You Gave Teddy Bear Pajamas To Anymore

Last update: 28 July, 2022

I promise that you will never touch an arm, a foot or a hand of hers. Nor will you kiss her again. Because she has run out of tears, and I have no fear left in me. I can’t imagine anything worse than the life you gave us with your toxic love. I’m not that little girl you used to lock up in a room and scream at. That girl you took your frustrations out on, frustrations which were born out of ghosts within you. Ghosts that seemed to grow with booze.

The only way for you to stop was when you ran out of strength due to the late hour. Or when you were so loud you were afraid the neighbors would figure out what was going on. Because outside our doors, you were a complete gentleman. I even heard you saying once that you were not like those men on television shows, that you washed your dirty laundry at home. But nobody knew the type of filth you were talking about. They didn’t even have a clue.

You might be my father, and that I cannot change. Although I really wish I could, because that word is too big for you. Even more than the awful teddy bear pajamas you used to give me when I was younger, and with which you attempted to silence your conscience.

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In the beginning, you woke up in the morning and said you were sorry. With the sunrise, you were the one afraid of losing it all. You stopped being a werewolf and became a scared man. You cleaned up the mess, went down to the farmer’s market and made enough juice for only one damn glass. Then, you woke my mother up with a kiss and looked for the right words so she could hold on to the hope that you were going to change.

You said you loved us, wanted to change and felt bad for what you did. Prayed for forgiveness, promised you would do better, reflect on what you did, and wouldn’t do it again. Then, you clenched your fists, and the rage returned. Firmly, you clasped your palms as if the act of separating the air that you breathed would cover your words with truth. While you tried to soften my mother’s heart, you hated yourself. You went from one emotion to another, until you left not to come back until sundown.

Instead of pajamas, you started gifting me a hit once in a while. You though I was mature enough to teach me with your fists what life was. You never understood I was still a child, and you were stealing my childhood little by little each day.

I remember many hits, but I specially remember the first one in which I touched my face and saw blood. At that moment, I became aware that my destiny was bonded with the destiny of the table and chairs. Soon, I was going to need repairs myself: band aids, casts, ways to conceal my wounds. Awkward questions in school and more beatings because of my bad grades. Also, less friends because of the days spent locked inside my house.

One night, mom decided we were going to sleep at one of her friends’ house. It was the night of the first complaint. It was not my mother who made the complaint, but her friend. Because you trashed her house when you went looking for us. That night you made the great effort of repeating the words from the beginning. You repeated them with a whiny and hoarse voice. You spent the night in jail. They let you go the next day. Mom spent the whole night crying. Her tears turned the strength required to file a complaint against you into wet paper. Police officers came to the house in the morning, and she shut the door in their faces.

You came back with your head down, but within a few days you forgot the hours spent in jail. I don’t want to know what the next step is anymore. I am so tired of reading the newspapers and watching television. You think they exaggerate looking for morbid stories to sell when you are seeing it from the outside. But when you are living it, you realize they fall short. Because of that, I want you to take this letter with you, when they put the handcuffs on you today.

A letter in which I ask you to never come back here again. If there is a pinch of love within you, if there is any humanity left in you, don’t come back. During all of these years, I have been a stranger to you. Now, it’s me who tells you that you don’t know what I am capable of in order to keep her safe. It is what I want the most, understand that.

With the truth, with love, with all the courage I have accumulated over these past years. With the same blood you spilled that day with your first hit. I promise you that you will never again touch an arm, a foot or a hand of hers. Nor will you kiss her again.

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