Everything Will Be Alright in the End

"I'm trusting and I look into the horizon full of hope. I know that everything will be alright in the end. I'm aware that there's strength in my vulnerability and understand there are times when I must stop and just be patient. This is because I'll find peace and happiness in spite of any changes."
Everything Will Be Alright in the End
Valeria Sabater

Written and verified by the psychologist Valeria Sabater.

Last update: 15 November, 2021

Everything will be alright in the end so don’t stop believing, regardless of your reality. There’ll be peace at some point and you’ll regain your balance. Thus, your thoughts, body, and heart will be in a good place again. You may find it hard to believe right now but you have strengths you’re not aware of, which you can use as soon as you need them.

Would it be too cocky to be certain that everything will be alright in the end? Of course not!

As Hellen Keller, a deaf and blind writer and activist said, there’s no achievement without optimism. Confidence won’t work without positivity and hope. Therefore, it’s essential to nurture a receptive attitude towards the idea that tomorrow will be better than today.

Positive psychology is now on a second wave and goes beyond the typical skills and behaviors that allow you to be happy. Psychologists such as Itai Ivtzan and Tim Lomas are currently leading this movement. In fact, they emphasize a series of abilities you must keep in mind during periods of crisis.

Viktor Frankl once said that the only way out, when you can’t change a situation, is to change yourself. That transformation process is what allows you to add building blocks to the bridge that’ll allow you to move forward towards a future where everything is alright.

A backpacker hiking, knowing everything will be alright.

Everything will be alright, even if you don’t get what you want

One of the most common complaints in psychological therapy offices is that nothing in a given person’s life is going well. This is because, sometimes, people get to a point in which they don’t see any light at the end of the proverbial tunnel.

They’re situations where depression impairs the existential world. It isn’t easy to show them the path towards their strengths and make them realize their own ability to make changes and let the light in.

Things, people, experiences, and the world itself are seldom black and white. Nothing is entirely bad nor perfect. People operate on a grayscale for the most part. Thus, your dreams are often only partly fulfilled. Love isn’t perfect, but it’s worth it. A job is never as you’d expect it to be but it may be rewarding.

Thus, and although what you long for may never materialize, everything will be alright in the end. It’s a matter of attitude, of accepting the bad and appreciating the good, of learning to move within the gray area, and dealing with it while continuing to fight for what you want and rightly deserve.

Everything will be alright because you won’t give up

Everything will be alright because life won’t allow you to give up. It’s that simple. Some may believe you’re a hero for dealing with a difficult situation but you have no other choice than to confront it.

Some will do better and others worse but everyone goes through moments they’re not prepared for and, yet, they succeed.

Martin Seligman, an exponent of positive psychology, points out that persistence is one of the most important psychological strengths one must attend to. It’s all about maintaining an optimistic confident attitude with which to handle the complexities of life a little better. Thus, don’t stop believing that everything will be alright as it helps you focus on overcoming your problems by nurturing your courage and willpower.

“Everything will be okay in the end. If it’s not okay, it’s not the end.”

-John Lennon-

A man and a woman on the floor.

Circumstances change but there’s always someone you can lean on

Fate brings you unexpected changes. Some are no big deal but others a lot more challenging and may even be hard. However, know that everything will be alright in the end, especially if you surround yourself with valuable people. This is because things are easier when you have somebody to lean on. They’ll shelter you when you’re afraid and provide you with energy when your strength and motivation fail you.

It’s a lot harder to deal with your problems when you’re alone. You can fall apart at some point in your life; it doesn’t matter how independent and tough you may be. Knowing you can talk to someone who’ll listen without judgment is comforting and restores your heart. Thus, remember that a lot of people love you and are willing to help you in any way they can.

Also, just admit that you like to hear that everything will be alright because these words, so packed with affection, reassure you that you’re not alone. Thus, they’ll encourage you to do your best under every circumstance.

Because you’re bigger and more confident when you team up with others. They help you look forward to a future where things will improve and you’re at ease again. Therefore, use the resources you have at hand and remain optimistic. This is because everything will be alright sooner or later.

This text is provided for informational purposes only and does not replace consultation with a professional. If in doubt, consult your specialist.