Avoid Common Communication Mistakes

Avoid Common Communication Mistakes

Last update: 14 May, 2016

Some of the mistakes we make when it comes to communication can intentionally get us into a lot of trouble. The way we communicate can even wreck our relationships with others, because it can give off an image of us that doesn’t match what we want to project or who we really are.

Effective communication is fundamental for human relationships. Up next, we’ll analyze the most frequent mistakes we make when we interact with others, and see how to solve them.

Communication mistakes you should avoid

As you can see within your own life, communicating efficiently and avoiding misunderstandings is a lot easier than it may seem.

couple arguing

To help you with this task, we leave you the following advice with which you’ll be able to avoid certain communication mistakes:

Not double-checking your written messages

Written messages are an easy and quick way to communicate which have a lot advantages, because what’s left in writing is much easier to recover from, among other things.

However, few people write at the same speed they talk or think. This implies that a time lag can result in a different message than the one we’re trying to transmit.

Inappropriately or incorrectly used expressions, idioms, errors in grammar, auto corrects, etc., can give off the wrong message.

Avoiding this mistake is as simple as checking the text that’s going to be sent before you send it, be it on paper, an email or a text message or SMS.

Giving bad news via email 

Many people feel uncomfortable giving bad news, and to avoid this bitter moment, they use email to transmit them or, even worse, instant text messaging applications.

However, these channels don’t soften the message and give way to misunderstandings. Besides, all of the power of body language is lost, and it no longer offers a way for more intense emotions to show.

Therefore, when you have to give bad news or talk about delicate subjects, don’t use written communication; rather, talk to the other person face to face.

Talking directly to the other person will allow us to use the other person’s signs to know if the message is clear and to clear up any doubts.

Avoiding difficult conversations

Difficult conversations are unpleasant. But when there’s a problem that needs a solution, we have to face them. Avoiding a difficult conversation is a way to make the problem even worse.

Problems don’t fix themselves, and if you don’t solve them, you leave the situation free to morph into something that’s potentially more serious.

If you have a difficult conversation before you, don’t beat around the bush. Confront it, the sooner the better.

When you send or communicate a message, you have to make sure that the receiver has received and understood your message.