Seven Tips to Give Your Teens About Social Media
There are certain facts that teens, as potential users, should know about social media. Indeed, children are starting to use these networks at an increasingly earlier age. For this reason, they need to know certain guidelines. As a matter of fact, although most teens probably think they possess a great deal of knowledge on the subject, this isn’t necessarily the case. What’s more, this false sense of security is what makes them such an easy target. Therefore, in this article, we’re going to mention seven tips to give your teens about social media.
Social networks such as TikTok, Instagram, Snapchat, and Twitch have increased their number of users in recent years. In fact, they’ve now become a part of the social media landscape. So much so, that many young people now assume that, in order to be someone, they must have a presence on the web. In fact, they don’t only use it to socialize, inform themselves, or entertain themselves, it’s also an environment that they use to conduct their social experiments and shape their identities.
There may well come a time when these tools become indispensable. Indeed, it’s easy to see how a 14-year-old gets a good part of their daily reinforcement from Instagram. Furthermore, how they can develop an addiction to likes, or that their meaning of life is provided by what appears on the screen.
However, can we prevent young people from reaching these extremes? We can certainly try, by giving them the seven tips below.
One of the most common problems among teenagers is in thinking that, if they’re not connected even for a moment, they’re missing out. It’s actually known as FOMO (Fear Of Missing Out).
Seven tips to give your teens about social media
Some people may find this subject rather tedious. Some might even think that there’s a danger of being over-alarmist and only seeing the dangers of social media. However, as we mentioned earlier, social media isn’t harmful or damaging in itself. The problem lies in the way the younger generation uses it.
The Qustodio group and the Ipsos company, a multinational specialized in market research, recently conducted a study in which they identified a new reality they named “hyperconnected families”. They discovered that adolescents between 12 and 17 years old spend more time with their devices than the time they spend in class.
They also discovered that, on average, parents tend to restrict their children’s use of technology rather than educating them on its benefits and risks. However, fortunately, this trend is changing. In fact, it’s becoming increasingly necessary, even imperative, for parents to explain to their teenage children about social media.
1. Be careful when publishing certain things
Privacy is one of the most relevant topics in the area of social media. Teens must take great care with the material they publish. Indeed, not everything is okay and not everything is even legally permissible. For example, intimate photos should never be shared, even privately. Because these kinds of images can be used by third parties in a damaging way. As a matter of fact, the phenomenon of sextortion (blackmail through new technology) is common.
One more recommendation is to deactivate the geolocation in any images shared on social media.
2. Not everything that appears on social media is true
Fake news is the order of the day. Sharing data, information, and fake news is something that children and teens should be aware of. Furthermore, beyond fake news is the Instagram underworld where everything is seemingly perfect.
Children must be warned that many of the influencers are only products of social media. In fact, behind those perfect bodies and faces, lie endless tricks, filters, and visits to the cosmetic surgeon.
Adolescents are natives in the world of devices and platforms. However, this doesn’t mean that they have enough psychological skills to deal with channels that are governed by image, the dictatorship of “likes”, fake news, and cybercriminals or cyberbullies. They need advice and guidance.
3. They’re worth much more than a “like”. Validation and comparison risks
Another thing that teenagers should know about social networks is that they shouldn’t base their self-esteem on what happens on these platforms. Often, they upload a photo and watch for the notifications. Furthermore, a comment in one direction or another can fill them with either happiness or insecurity and complexes.
Envy is another recurring factor on social media. Instagram and TikTok are the mirrors in which they compare themselves. However, what they observe here on a daily basis has little to do with who they really are and what surrounds them.
The John Hopkins School of Medicine conducted a study in which they discovered that teen depression and suicidal behaviors have risen in recent decades, associated with the advent of social media.
4. All isn’t lost if you’re offline for a few hours
Another thing that teens should know about social media is that life happens beyond the screen. Therefore, adults should monitor the length of time they spend on their devices. As a matter of fact, teens should get used to having hobbies and passions outside of technology. This will improve their quality of life.
Many adolescents experience irritability, bad moods, and disrupted sleep due to their addiction to social media and their mobile phones. This is something that adults must control and prevent.
5. Say no to online challenges
Online challenges pose a real risk to teens and to any immature and reckless adult. One example was the blackout challenge, which consisted of people choking themselves until they lost consciousness. This was particularly fashionable recently. In fact, several children and adolescents died trying to meet the challenge.
6. Don’t participate in cyberbullying
Cyberbullying should neither be promoted nor shared. Teens should know that they mustn’t do this to harm others. Indeed, posting private photos or videos, insulting someone, or harassing them is a crime and a practice in which they shouldn’t ever become involved.
7. In any unusual situation, turn to an adult
This is probably the most basic yet most important advice. Indeed, children and adolescents can and should ask adults for help whenever they find themselves in an unusual, uncomfortable, or threatening situation that they’re unable to deal with. They need to feel that they’re not alone and that they can approach their parents or other appropriate adults to find solutions. Along the same lines, they should report any bullying or harassment campaigns or any inappropriate situations to their classmates.
Finally, educating teens in these guidelines as early as possible will directly mediate their proper use of social networks. Therefore, don’t hesitate to give these seven tips to them.It might interest you...
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